Getting Wife To Accept Your Skimpy Underwear Preference
I’ve had conversations with guys that have wives that are reluctant to accept the switch from the men’s underwear norm to the skimpier styles. Some have been wearing bikinis and/or thongs for years. Some have just entered into the world of skimpy underwear. Some wives outright reject the idea and make comments about it. Some say it’s your choice of what you wear, but still don’t necessary accept or seem to like it. So what can you do?
Do you give in and go back to the norm? I’m guessing some do, but a majority I have talked to stick it out and put up with the comments they may get now and then. I’ve been lucky and haven’t had any issues with my choice, so these are just ideas that come to mind. First don’t give in. If you enjoy wearing them, then you should continue to do so. You are not hurting you or your wife or anyone else. The reason most of us wear bikinis and thongs is for ourselves, so don’t let others dictate what you wear when it is not what you want to wear.
A lot of the resistance the wifes seem to have is more because it is not the societal norm and they are in the mindset these are feminine styles. How do you change this mindset? One way is the more something is seen the more it starts becoming a norm in my mind. So the more your wife sees you in the styles the more likely she’ll start seeing it as normal. So wear only the skimpy styles and avoid the so called norm undies. Just get rid of the traditional men’s styles and then she will not question your commitment to the bikinis and/or thongs. Make them your new norm.
This is probably where you should start first. From the beginning be open about your desire to wear bikinis and/or thongs. Explain why you want to try or wear them. If she has a variety of styles then she should know that different styles make you feel different. If she doesn’t maybe you should suggest she should explore other styles too. A good comparison for support that Salvatore, who wrote for Underwear News Briefs, explained to his wife is finding a good pair of underwear for us is like finding the right bra for them.
Talk her into helping you pick some out. Getting her involved may make it a bit more interesting for her and maybe even you. She’ll see all the options that are out there for guys. We wouldn’t have so many options if guys weren’t wearing them. Yes, it would be more helpful if they were readily available in the store.
Those are some ideas that come to mind. I think time is key. Most people don’t really like change, but over time they adjust to it and it becomes the new norm. Hopefully others will have some suggestions on ideas on how to get your wife to accept your choice. Maybe some of you went through this with your wife and got her to come around. Comment below with what worked for you. You just have to persevere through it and in time your wife or significant other should at least see it as a norm for you. Hopefully the negative comments will get less and less said and maybe even she’ll start really liking what she sees.