Hiding Your Bikinis and Thongs
This post is inspired by a question from one of my loyal readers, T. He put this question out there and you can answer it in the comments.
Do the guys who wear thongs hang them up outside on the washing line for all to see, or do they keep them indoors to dry for fear of negative comments from neighbours?
This post is not going to be all about the question, but first I’ll answer it and then move on to the topic related to it. My answer to the question is I use to hang my underwear out to dry. Now a days I just find it easier to throw them on the drying rack in the laundry room. My neighbors aren’t really close to us and I rarely talk to them, so wouldn’t bother me to put them on display. Plus they might not know if they are mine or my wife’s from far away anyhow. I do think it is fun to see undies hanging out on the clothes line.
In this post I want to touch on more of a fear of someone finding out you wear bikinis or thongs or against the norm undies. I’ve talked to guys that are really fearful that a friend or acquaintance is going to get a peek of their underwear. So they really limit the times they can slip on something a bit sexy. Yes, I do choice my underwear based on the situation, but mainly I typically avoid wearing underwear on the sheer side if I’m going to be seen in them. Thongs I avoided at the doctor’s office so far. I may avoid them in other situations, but when wearing one in a situation I’ll be seen, I keep my rear away from others. So I do hide somewhat, but those occasion do not happen often.
In the 20 plus years of wearing bikinis and thongs I haven’t had an issue with friends learning I wear them. At least none of them have mentioned getting a glance of the unmentionables. So if you’re not wearing low rise jeans with a short shirt, then you probably aren’t going to be revealing your underwear to someone you know. If you are wearing a pair of underwear with a branded elastic waistband that sticks out then they won’t be able to differentiate them from boxer briefs or briefs. I wear what I call true bikinis and thongs, which do not have branded waistbands. As of yet, I still haven’t been in any awkward situations with people I know about my underwear preference.
If a friend I knew happened to find out I’m wearing a thong or bikini, I would expect respect from them. Otherwise I wouldn’t consider them a real friend. They may crack a joke, but I would expect them to limit them and not spread the word. It may not end up being a bad thing at all if they found out. You never know it could get them interested in giving one a try if they know you find them comfortable.
I wouldn’t let someone finding out you like to wear bikini and/or thong underwear dictate when you wear them. The odds are they’re not going to know what you are wearing. That is why they’re worn under your clothes and called unmentionables. You don’t have to put them on display for the world to see. Do you struggle with when you wear them? Or are you somewhat selective like I am? Or do you just wear what you want and not care? Share with us in the comments.