Married Str8 Trio – Our Wives and Our Underwear
Married Str8 Trio is back with a little conversation on our underwear experience with our wives.
When did your wife discover you wore skimpy underwear? From the beginning or did you make the switch at some point in your relationship?
The Bottom Drawer: I had already been wearing bikinis and thongs for over 10 years before I met my wife, so I had no other options in my drawer. They were and still are of course ‘normal’ underwear for me. So my wife was introduced to the skimpy underwear from the get go. I don’t recall if the first reveal was a thong or a bikini though. Either way it was way skimpier than the norm.
Blkmlthng: It was probably 6 months or just shy of a year of being married that she discovered that I preferred skimpy styles of men’s underwear. Before I met my wife, I had been wearing men’s thongs, string bikinis and bikini briefs off and on since my college days in 2000/2001 but would wear boxer briefs mostly to confirm to what I thought was appropriate and what women wanted their man to wear. Nowadays my thongs, g-strings, string bikinis and bikini briefs greatly outweigh my boxer briefs. I’m in a very fortunate situation in that my wife enjoys me wearing thongs, g-strings and string bikinis for men. When we first got married I surprised her one night by wearing a gstring and she loved it! Though not the only type of underwear I wear, I do wear men’s thongs, gstrings, bikini briefs and string bikinis often as daily underwear. We recently celebrated our wedding anniversary and took a trip. Her request was for me to wear nothing but thongs or gstrings which I was happy to comply and packed nothing but these underwear for the trip! While out to dinner she talked about how she never thought she would marry a guy who would enjoy wearing such underwear and that I exude so much confidence in them! Having a wife who enjoys seeing you in such underwear is just icing on the cake!
Ron: I think it was a surprise to my wife that I wore skimpy underwear and swimwear when we first met as I’m a lot older. I’ve always worn it pre-days of my first wife so wasn’t about to change. While my wife now, doesn’t like my skimpy styles she accepts them though I still order the occasional trunk style for her benefit.
What was her initial reaction? Has her view of them changed over time?
Blkmlthng: Her first reaction was very positive. She really made me feel good about myself and it was an added bonus that she found my underwear sexy and appealing to her. She still enjoys seeing me in my undies the other day I was changing my clothes from work as I was pulling my pants down she said to me, “oh let me see (referring to my underwear) those are cute I like you in those!” I was wearing a coral color Cocksox string bikini brief.
Ron: When we first moved in together we were still in the ‘getting to know each other ‘ phase and she accepted them without any hint of her true feelings though as time went on she stated her true dislike. However now she’s accepted that I’m not going to change and leaves me to wear them but with the odd derogatory comment.
The Bottom Drawer: I don’t remember my wife’s initial reaction to the first time finding out I wore bikinis and thongs. I know it wasn’t a negative one. So far her view of them hasn’t changed. She has always been interested in what I’ve got on. Has to check the rear to see if it is a bikini or thong. I do remember when I brought up my interest in swim briefs/bikinis, she had to have me model some for her.
Were you surprised with her reaction?
The Bottom Drawer: I wasn’t really surprised with the reaction I got from the underwear, since it isn’t anything I’m really putting on display for everyone. Plus my previous relationship was positive towards my underwear choice. Probably say I was more surprised with the support of wearing a bikini swimsuit if I so wanted. At the time I brought that up to her, my most conservative swim brief was a Speedo Solar.
Ron: To be honest I was initially pleasantly surprised -at last someone close to me who supported me in my choice of underwear and swimwear. As time went on it turned out she was no different in her dislike of the tiny garments but as I’ve said she now tolerates.
Blkmlthng: I was surprised at her reaction. She was the first women who saw my true choice of underwear. All the women of my past just saw me in either boxers or boxer briefs aka my safe underwear lol. Once she gave me her positive response to my true choice of underwear it helped me to continue to wear what I truly enjoy. She always says it was my confidence in wearing a men’s thong or g-string that impressed her as she never thought she would date let alone marry a guy who wear such sexy men’s underwear.
Does your wife ever purchase or gift underwear to you?
Blkmlthng: She has in the past. After I surprised her by wearing a black g-string male tuxedo outfit one night, she purchased me a leopard male power g-string. Recently I made a purchase to Gregg Homme and they sent a catalog of their new items. She went through the catalog and picked out some things she would like to see me in. I’m sure I will be getting a package in the mail at some point!
The Bottom Drawer: She has before, but not very often. I think part of that is due to me being the one that normally gets the mail and packages. Hard for her to buy them for a gift or a surprise. She’d have to send them somewhere else to do that and guess figures I’d prefer not to have relatives know my underwear preference if they checked out the company.
That’s a wrap on this one. If you have any ideas for topics you’d like us to discuss, feel free to send them to me and I’ll see if I can come up with something. How’s your underwear experience been with your significant other?