Underwear Is Just Underwear

Underwear Is Just Underwear

Is underwear really just underwear? I know we’ve said that bikinis and thongs are just underwear, but with that we mean who cares what people think with it being something most people won’t see. Maybe for a good portion of the population underwear is just underwear, but for those that follow my blog or come across this it is probably not the case. Really it shouldn’t be the case for anyone.

Underwear shouldn’t be just thought as the piece of clothing between your skin and outer clothing. They can be so much more if you get away from most of the big box stores offerings. Let’s make our underwear fun instead of pulling on the same old looking pair day in and day out. It’s the first thing you pull on to start your day, so shouldn’t they make you feel good? Maybe sexy or a bit naughty? You know guys are allowed to have underwear that can produce those feelings too.

Make it so your underwear isn’t just underwear. Allow your underwear to make your day a better one. Picking a pair out that hugs your body in the right way can give you some extra pep. They can instill confidence. Underwear can be fun and interesting for both males and females. We both have numerous styles, colors/patterns, fabrics, and brands out there to try. Yes, guys you’ll have to use the Internet more than the ladies to see the broad offering. Shop with your significant other and each pick out something for each other. You could have fun by matching your underwear style and color with your partners. Let’s make underwear more than just underwear.

Let’s move away from boring underwear and move on to pairs that make a statement. Of course I’d advocate that to be bikinis and thongs. They make me feel great, are fun, hug the right places, are sexy, and feel great all the way around. Remember first and foremost underwear is for you, so you shouldn’t care what others think or may say. Wear what makes you feel great. Hopefully your significant other will enjoy them too, which if they are bikinis and/or thongs they should :o). Seriously both sexes, if you haven’t tried bikinis and/or thongs then do yourself a favor and do so. You may get a surprise that you like how they make you feel, which is most important. So for me underwear isn’t just underwear.

22 Responses

  1. DonS says:

    There’s the sense you are referring to here, but there’s also another way of looking at this. Underwear for some also doubles as sleepwear (all genders). Whether that be the day’s pair being used at night, or, as in my case, a string bikini being changed for a G-string at night, I think the same argument as you have used applies to the sense I am using.

    A good comfortable pair of underwear can be a great thing to sleep in, especially the styles we commonly use with their minimal fabric and good support. There may also be men who have to sleep in underwear for medical reasons.

    • T says:

      Hi Don. The subject of wearing underwear as sleepwear is an interesting one and would probably make a good stand alone topic too.
      I personally prefer to sleep naked for various reasons,one of them being that if I’m wearing a g-string from early morning until late at night,I like the freedom of hanging loose and it gives my “sensitive” areas a break from the friction that can occur with such intimate apparel.
      There are probably lots of guys who would prefer to sleep naked but feel they have to cover up particularly if they have young children who like to climb in beside their parents first thing in the morning. In those circumstances you have to forgive them for wearing pyjamas or baggy boxers,although bikini briefs,strings and thongs should still be acceptable and would go some way to “normalize” them in the eyes of a child.
      For guys sharing a room or house with a communal bathroom, it’s likely that the majority of their housemates probably sleep and walk about in the underwear(mainly boxers?)that they put on that morning,so it would be a brave and daring guy who would buck the trend by walking about with his butt cheeks hanging out of a thong.
      Getting back to Nate’s original topic,I hope I never get to the stage where I think any old underwear will do. I’m reminded of the advice you used to hear years ago about always making sure you were wearing clean underwear in pristine condition in case you were knocked down by a car and had to be stripped at the hospital.
      I personally take great pride in my underwear choices and if I’m wearing a skimpy g-string under my trousers I sometimes think to myself “I wonder what people would say if they knew what I had on beneath these work clothes” etc!

      • DonS says:

        Strangely, I’ve never felt comfortable sleeping naked. Originally, with shared accommodation, it would just not have been acceptable with the other male or when his girl-friend visited. Plus I’ve always been a bit conscious of what happens in an emergency, say having to evacuate the place, and of course, this is just the time when any underwear would be hiding.

        Now in my own house, whether with girl-friend or partner, I still do not feel comfortable naked. Hence always covering the genitals at least. Perhaps this also has to do with her sleeping with string bikinis or bikinis under a t-shirt or camisole etc and being reluctant to sleep naked.

        • The Bottom Drawer says:

          I’m with you Don. I prefer underwear for sleeping, which typically is the pair I wore that day. I feel more comfortable contained.

        • t says:

          Hi Don. Can understand your concern about having to evacuate the house in an emergency and not being able to find any underwear to put on,but would it not be possible to have a bathrobe or pair of shorts at hand to cover yourself in the unlikely event of an emergency arising? Also,I think you mentioned that you sometimes wear a g-string in bed,so does that mean you would happily run out into the street with your butt cheeks on display to all and sundry?(lol).That would certainly give the bystanders something to talk about. There is of course the dread, for those of us who sleep naked, of wakening up and finding a burglar ransacking your room and therefore feeling more vulnerable due to our nakedness.However,depending on the size of your manhood,this could be to your advantage, as those who are particularly blessed in that department would be able to distract their assailant long enough to deliver a knockout blow while the rogue stared at your third leg. I wouldn’t let the unlikely possibility of any of the above stop me from enjoying the freedom of sleeping nude,Don.So why not give it a go and maybe your partner will be inspired to follow suit.

          • DonS says:

            Of course, if my manhood was tiny then the assailant could be laughing so hard that I could easily clobber him, but your description is the one that is closest (honest). I’ll give it a go soon once the Scottish relative visiting has returned home.

          • DonS says:

            Have tried fully naked and just a top three times just recently. I still can’t say I feel better without a G-string. I’ve got so used to the support that a good G-string gives that it feels strange having the bits dangling.

            So naked in a shower is OK, but that’s about the limit for me at the moment.

            • T says:

              That’s too bad,but at least you gave it a try. I can understand you wanting support for your “bits,” but does the string between your butt cheeks not irritate you especially if you are prone to toss and turn in your sleep?

              • DonS says:

                No, I can’t say I’ve noticed that. Sometimes a urine drop can work its way along the tail strap to cause anal irritation, and that’s worse in the more humid weather when it happens. For those worrying about wrapping the bits in tight fabric in hot weather, the nylon or polyester mesh fabrics work well.

                • T says:

                  Good to hear from you,Don. Reading your comment about the urine drop causing anal irritation raises a subject that you never hear guys talk about. I don’t mean the debilitating issues connected to male incontinence,but rather the annoying aftermath of a quick pee. I’m sure most men have experienced having a pee,shaking their manhood a few times to squeeze out the last few drops and zipping up only to discover a few minutes later that one rogue drop of urine has decided to make a late exit and attach itself to your white nylon posing pouch leaving an unfortunate stain. Probably not too noticeable if you wear baggy boxers,but for most of the guys,like me,who wear skimpy attire,a major concern. For what it’s worth,my personal solution is to have a piece of tissue in my hand when I’m at a urinal,and after I’ve finished peeing,I take the tissue and dry the head like you would use blotting paper,and then pop the tissue in the bin. If you are shy about doing this at a urinal,you could always go into a cubicle and do it in private and simply flush the tissue away. Would be interested to hear what other solutions guys on this blog use to combat this annoying issue.

    • DonS says:

      This could be expanded to using underwear for any other uses such as some using them as swimwear.

      • t says:

        Hi Don.I had NO doubt in my mind that my description of your “third” leg was closest to the truth. However,in the interests of balance and without the slightest hint of sexual gratification on my part,I feel I should break into your house late at night and have you confront me at the top of the stairs in all your naked glory just to see if I burst out laughing, or fall on my knees in surrender(lol). p.s Where is your Scottish relative from?

        • DonS says:

          Scotland obviously (you asked for it). Near Dundee is more accurate.

          • T says:

            You cheeky bugger!(lol). I kinda guessed it was Scotland,but obviously I was meaning which part of Scotland and didn’t think I had to be so specific with my question(lol). Anyway,while I’m on. Can I ask where YOU reside? And before you ask,I’m from East Kilbride which is not far from Glasgow. Your relative will tell you where that is.

          • DonS says:

            There must be depth limit to these posts and that has been exceeded, as I can’t seem to reply directly to your post. This might have to be manually placed with your post if that is possible.

            Brisbane (Qld) for me. An aunt used to live in Ibrox (London now) and a cousin (this aunt’s daughter) still lives near Gartcosh, so my Glasgow knowledge is not entirely zero.

            • The Bottom Drawer says:

              You did reach the default reply limit. I did just double it, which is the max they have in the settings. I don’t see an easy way to move the comment without messing with the actual database, but T can reply to this one now.

            • T says:

              Thanks Don. I am familiar with both Ibrox and Gartcosh,but Brisbane sounds a whole lot hotter,especially as I had to scrape ice off my windscreen this morning.

  2. RT says:

    I couldn’t agree more with BD’s comment. While wearing string bikinis and g-strings under my clothes is very much a personal choice based on comfort, there is also a part of me that likes to feel like I’m being a little naughty knowing just how tiny my underwear is. And why not! Just because I’m a man doesn’t mean I can’t or shouldn’t feel sexy wearing such underwear. Quite enjoy making a statement with them when changing at the gym, knowing quite a few guys are checking them out.
    And agree with T’s comment. After a day of wearing tiny briefs and/or g-strings, much prefer sleeping in the nude. Family is quite used to it after all these years, and would be shocked if they ever saw me wearing anything to sleep. Quite the reversal of expectations!

  3. Jr says:

    Tbd, I totally agree after switching from boxers to bikinis and thongs , underwear is just not underwear. I find that they not only fit better but are way more comfortable as well. I think it adds some fun work week when you wear thongs and bikinis and times I think it can take your mind off of a stressfull day just by wearing them . Shopping underwear is never boring when picking out new pairs , so many great styles and fabrics , really tough just to buy one pair. After making the switch you realize how much better underwear is out there. Underwear is not just underwear!!

  4. Ash says:

    In my view underwear is just underwear. But underwear is more than just that. For me I wore boxers for about a week in my early teens and hated them they didn’t feel right even boxer briefs weren’t comfortable so I switched back to briefs. At first it was my guilty little secret but then I realised that even if I am the only person wearing them in my peer group it’s what I like and was comfortable with. After a few years I started experimenting switching back and forth between bikini styles and other cuts of briefs. Eventually I tried thongs. Now it’s only been the last few months or so but I have found my self binning more and more of my briefs in favour of thongs. Last week I had a check and I think I have about 5 pairs of briefs left out of what was a hundred. And everything else has been replaced by thongs and g strings. I hadn’t even noticed the degree of change that much until then but it’s safe to say I have found my perfect underwear. And I have had weird looks returning from the laundry room when someone has taken my washing out the dryer and left it neetly folded on the counter for me to collect with my underwear neetly places on top but when ever someone asks why I always reply with it’s what I find comfortable I like the fit and feel. I find it strange how many people say things like “I couldn’t wear them people would rip into me” have you ripped into me ? Is the follow up and they go no. So what’s the problem underwear is underwear it expresses you under your clothes that’s all.

    • T says:

      Hi Ash, Must admit I thought it a bit strange that someone would take out your clothes from the dryer and place them neatly folded on a counter for you to collect. I can only assume you live in a block of flats or something similar with a communal laundry and the person who removed your clothes did so to allow them to use the dryer after you. I wonder why they would place your skimpy undies on top where everyone could see them? Are they trying to embarrass you,or is it just their way of letting you know they’ve handled your undies? Without wishing to sound paranoid,if I were you,I’d be counting my strings etc before and after the wash to check that nobody had swiped one to keep as a trophy.
      Love your attitude and reply when someone asks you about them and says they couldn’t wear them for fear of being “ripped.”
      G-strings are so cool and I commend you for sticking to your guns and baring your butt cheeks with pride.

  5. RT says:

    Missed a component of BD’s original message, which occurred to me as I was reading the responses. For many of us with “corporate” careers, there is a fair degree of conformity that is expected in our external attire. Conservative suit, plain shirt, subtle tie. Even our socks sometimes need to be plain, so as not to stand out. Our only outlet for expressing our individuality is our underwear. For me, and I gather many others, there is a bit of the rebel who wants to go completely against the norm by wearing the tiniest, sexiest bikinis I can find. I like how it makes me feel, and I do rather like the shock that it causes when I am changing in the locker room and drop my pants to reveal a micro-bikini or g-string. Always leave them guessing, I say!

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