Underwear or Swimwear Conversation in Person
This post is brought to you by an idea in an email I received from T. T’s example was with undies hanging out to dry, but really it would be anytime they are spotted. What would you do if you spotted some skimpy underwear hanging at the neighbors or someone wearing a thong in the locker room? Maybe a swim brief, bikini, or thong at the beach you are at. Would you be comfortable enough to go approach the person and compliment them on their choice and start up a conversation with them about it? Or just be happy you saw someone else sporting underwear or swimwear like you prefer.
Personally I’m not good at starting up conversation in general, so I’m not seeing myself walking up to a stranger and saying nice underwear. Or where did you get your underwear? Now maybe with swimwear it would be easier to strike up a conversation especially if I was sporting a swim brief. Though I’d still be very hesitate to do so. I’m more the one that is just happy when I see a guy sporting a swim brief. Now I would be fine if someone approached me to start a conversation as long as it was an intelligible one.
To me it seems women are more likely to comment and start up a conversation on someone’s underwear or swimwear. They shop together and give each other advice on how they look in clothes in general, which includes their unmentionables. I have witnessed it, so it’s not just the marketing and movies that it is done in. Maybe those things had some influence on them to do that. Unfortunately with underwear and swimwear for guys, we’re not going to find much in the skimpy area, so even if we were to shop together I don’t see much to talk about it.
Say you were brave enough to start up a conversation with a like minded individual what are some conversation starters that could be used?
How’s it going? Where did you buy that thong?
Hi my name is _____. Do you frequent this beach? It’s nice not being the only swim brief wearer for once.
What brand are you wearing? Doesn’t look like one I’m familiar with.
Or maybe you just start up a normal conversation first and slip in at some point by the way I like your underwear or swimwear choice. I wish more of us guys would break away from the norm.
Have any of you come across someone else with similar taste in underwear or swimwear while in the locker room, pool, or beach? I haven’t noticed anyone so far sporting bikini or thong underwear. Very rarely have I seen a swim brief and the times I have I wasn’t sport one myself. If you have, did you start up a conversation with the person? How did you go about it? Start with small talk or just went for complimenting their choice? What are your suggestions for trying to start up a conversation with a like minded individual in person?