It’s a Thong Thing — You Wouldn’t Understand (Until You Do)

Hey, do you know the saying It’s a Jeep Thing – You Wouldn’t Understand? Well if you do then thongs are kind of the same way. If you don’t then let’s do some thong exploration in this post.

Yes, thongs have some reputations, myths, and assumptions with them. This goes for both men’s and women’s thongs. There could be some what I’ll call half truths to some of them. Let’s dive into it.

Thong Perceptions

Thongs are perceived in many ways. The biggest one you hear and talk about most often is how are they comfortable. Then some believe thongs are for only certain outfits. You know the ones you don’t want your fuller underwear lines to show through. You’ll hear they’re not practical for everyday wear. Maybe even something like Wait, aren’t thongs just for special occasions? Or another reason one may say is I’m too old for thongs, they’re for the young ones.

Most of these perceptions aren’t from experience instead they’re just assumptions. Or misinformation or even bad experiences they’ve heard from others. Let’s take a look at some truths.

The Truth: What Thongs are Actually Like

I’ve been wearing thongs for close to 30 years. Then I’ve been blogging on the subject for a little over 11 years. Now would I be wearing them so long or writing about them if the above were true? The short answer is No.

I find thongs to be very comfortable. Yes, it is true over the years I’ve found thongs that were not comfortable. For me, more often than not the thongs I’ve tried have been comfortable. I’ll talk more on comfort a bit later in this post.

It is true thongs can help with limiting visible underwear lines under form fitting clothes. Not something I’m concerned about though. That’s not the only benefit of them.

With thongs actually being comfortable, why can’t they be everyday underwear. Or at the least in the daily underwear option rotation. You don’t just need to wear them when you want no underwear lines. Nor only for certain special occasions. You still could save special thongs for those times.

Thongs are for any age and are for both men and women. Why should your underwear choice be limited based on your age or sex? Everybody has the right to wear thongs if they so choose.

Thongs are a great underwear choice for both men and women. They give you freedom. Less fabric equals less restrictions especially on the thighs. Then there is no more bunching of your underwear! They’re much cooler in warmer weather. For guys they can provide excellent support.

The ‘Aha!’ Moment

When you find a thong that fits just right, it just clicks. It’s like “Whoa!” Stop the presses! This thong is awesome. I can’t believe it is true that a thong can be so comfortable. Really it is one of those things it is hard to make someone understand until it happens to them.

Thong Loyalty

When you find something that fits well, is comfortable, and makes you feel good, it’s hard not to become loyal. That’s exactly how it can happen with thongs. Many times the journey starts out of curiosity. Then bam — you realize what a thong brings to the table and you keep pulling them out of the drawer over your other underwear styles. It’s not because you have to, it’s because you want to.

You’ve found underwear that stays put and doesn’t bunch. They move with you instead of against you. They bring a lighter, freer feel, while fuller styles can start to feel bulky and restrictive. Then along the way, it becomes less about underwear and more about how you feel in your own skin. That’s when it starts becoming It’s a Thong Thing.

How to Get Started With Thongs

Not all thongs are created equal, and they definitely don’t all fit the same way. So it’s not just about buying one thong and being done if it isn’t comfortable. It’s about finding the thong that fits you just right.

I’ve found over the years that sometimes the first try of a new thong doesn’t always go well. I’ve had pairs that actually grew on me after the first few wears. This may be more true for men than women, but I’ve also learned that adjustment can matter. Sometimes I need a pair to sit a little lower in the front to get the back to sit higher for the right comfort.

Let’s look at a few things worth paying attention to.

Sizing comes first.

If there’s a size chart, use it. A medium in one brand is not always the same as a medium in another I’ve found. A thong that’s too tight probably isn’t going to be comfortable — it may dig in or feel restrictive. Going up a size can completely change the experience. On the flip side, if it’s too big, it may not stay in place and can ride or bunch. Both matter.

Material plays a big role in comfort.

If you can shop in person, feeling the fabric is a big bonus. Soft is always a good place to start. Cotton and bamboo are great beginner-friendly options. I personally like blends that have spandex in them, so they cling and move with you. I’ve had really good experiences with modal as well. There’s no single “best” fabric — the best one is the one that feels good on your body.

The back of the thong deserves more attention than it gets.

Most people only think about the width of the tail, and that does matter. But the cut and the rise matter too.
Where the back starts to widen is something I pay close attention to. When it widens higher up, closer to the top, I usually find it more comfortable. This often goes along with a slightly higher rise of the pair. When pairs sit too low, I find the tail can pull at the base and become uncomfortable. Higher-rise pairs that widen higher up tend to stay put and need less adjusting in my opinion.

Now, back to the tail width.

Width and fabric work together. A soft, lightweight material can feel great even in a wider back strap. String backs can also be comfortable, but some can cut in at the bottom. I own a variety of styles, but I personally find about a half-inch to an inch width is often a comfortable range. This is one of those areas where experimenting really pays off.

Bottom line: don’t be one-and-done with thongs.

The right thong is very comfortable — but it might not be the first one you try. Experiment with different fabrics, cuts, and rises before writing them off. Also consider giving a pair more than one wear. Sometimes it’s about adjustment. Ideally, you want to find the thong you can slip on and forget you’re even wearing one.

Wrapping It Up: It’s a Thong Thing

At the end of the day, you don’t truly understand a thong until you experience them for yourself. The comfort, the freedom, the way they move with your body instead of against it. For some people, thongs will always just be another style of underwear. But for others, they become the style. The one you reach for without thinking. Once that shift happens…“It’s a Thong Thing. You Do Understand.”

So whether you’re thong-curious, just starting out, or you’ve already committed, the real takeaway is simple. Find what feels good on your body. What fits your life. And what gives you that quiet confidence when you get dressed. Because comfort isn’t about trends, age, or assumptions — it’s about what works for you.